WHY YOU NEED THIS GUIDE
This is one of the reasons why ladies spend so much time on their appearance and really show their stuff when going out. It is our job as men to approach women. It just so happens that ladies make this job very easy by looking amazing.
When I’m out and about and a lady asks me what I do for a living, I’m honest and tell her I teach men how to attract women. They often respond with something like ‘You mean like in that book where those guys lie and put women down in order to get them into bed?’ I do understand why women have their guard up about these things. When they think about men trying to attract women, they think about those drunk guys in the clubs that have no respect and are often complete assholes. They think about every man that has ever lied to them and don’t want some guy teaching more guys how to be like that. I get it completely. I don’t want that either. The thing is that those drunk assholes at the bar don’t need my help. They’re the only ones approaching women at all and their method pays off more times than it really should. The guys that do solicit my help are
Guys that come out
relationships and just need to
get back into dating again.
Men that spent all of their 20s
focusing on their career, got to
where they wanted to and now
want to have some fun without
wasting any more time.
Shy introverts looking
for more experience.
Average guys who
sick of settling for girls
they’re not really interested
Men who are already
good with women but want to
excel and get the types of
women they really want.
Sir Marshmallow spends a lot of time taking care of his mum who has Multiple Sclerosis. He doesn’t get many opportunities to be social because someone has to be home at all times to look after his mum. He wants to use every second he has free to have fun and get beautiful women in his life.
Sir Appleslice’s brother is seriously mentally ill and still living with the family. Sir Appleslice always believed he’d never have a partner because no woman would want someone whose brother was mentally ill and whom he’d have to take care of at some points throughout his life. Seeing firsthand the kindness of women pushed him to believe otherwise. He is now happily dating.
Sir Rumball is a good-looking guy. He also has a medical condition that he has to take chemotherapy tablets for. When he takes them, he suffers bloating which affects his ability to move around. He didn’t think he could ever meet a girl that would be willing to put up with his condition.
Fortunately for us men, when we fail to see the beauty in ourselves, women have the ability to show us that beauty.
When we push through our limiting beliefs and see the light at the end of the tunnel, it’s an amazing feeling. You smile everywhere you go and your happiness is infectious. Do you think Sir Marshmallow, Sir Appleslice and Sir Rumball don’t deserve to feel this way? Of course they do. Same goes for all the other men who want to be happy, feel loved, and have control over their dating lives.
Once these guys start getting some control in one area, they start wanting to change their whole life for the better.
This is what psychologists call the Locus of Control.
The thing I see is that once these guys start to expand their comfort zone to include attracting women for example, the side effect is that things outside of attracting women- such as starting a side project or asking for a raise for example- will suddenly start to seem easier to accomplish.
This is the secret to how you can get control over your life. This is also how attracting women will affect the other areas of your life. Here are some examples of specific skillsets you’ll learn and the ways they can apply to your everyday life:
Quickly building rapport with women will mean that when you go to job interviews, you can apply the same principles to get your dream job by quickly building rapport with the interviewer.
Dealing with women testing you. This will help you get perspective when people think they’re better than you either in your personal or your professional life.
Having engaging stories will make you more likeable, ensure people remember you and is also an incredibly useful tool in your career when networking.
Selling yourself is invaluable for selling an idea, showing great leadership skills and inspiring others to believe in you. The above are just a few examples. Some of my students have truly amazed me over the years with what they have accomplished just by applying the principles in this book.
I’ll share some stories with you.
He did this by going to the gym, doing yoga and eating well. His abs look great and he’s happy to show them off to anyone that wants a look.
He always wanted to be a writer but got sidetracked at an IT job he hated. He made the tough decision to leave his job and start pursuing his passion for writing. He is now an intern for a startup and writes funny marketing articles for their blog. He is also working on a book as we speak. He earns very little money but he’s the happiest I have ever seen him.
When they found out he was learning to attract women, naturally he took some more bullying. But then something else happened- Sir Jellybean became really good at attracting beautiful women. What did his brothers do? They called my assistant to try and organize an appointment for them to meet me and find out what I had done with their brother. Sir Jellybean was over the moon about finally winning out against them. This improved their relationship and the whole family gets along better as a result.
One more side effect from attracting women is you can expect some hilarious outcomes that make an awesome story.
So I present to you the Tale of Sir Raisintoast.
He was so excited he texted me soon after he met her. He continued to text me with updates on how the courtship was progressing, and last I heard was they were passionately locking lips with each other. Then the texts stopped coming. I didn’t hear from him again until he got back to Australia. When I casually asked him how it went, he didn’t want to tell me, and then admitted that they were in a quiet corner and he slid his hands up her dress where he surprisingly discovered a raging hard-on! He freaked out and left. We all had a jolly laugh about it, and I mentioned to him this was not the only time a student of mine has been ‘surprised’.
I’ll share one of my funny moments with you too.
I met two girls on the beach and went back to their place for lunch. After lunch, they told me to wait in the lounge as they wanted to get something prepared that they thought I would like. Naturally, I was high-fiving myself expecting a threesome. They came out to me with a box. My eyes widened with expectation of what goodies would be inside. Each one sat on either side of me as they opened the box of goodies. Turned out to be three bibles inside for each of us to read. Imagine my disappointment!.